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Can you have a good divorce?

We understand that going through a divorce is a challenging and emotional time. Our solicitors will work closely with you to give you the support and advice you need. We will answer any questions you may have, attempt to negotiate a fair settlement for you and aim for a ‘good’ divorce process.

The ‘Good Divorce Week’ organised by Resolution raises important awareness to separating couples on how to reduce conflict and resolve their issues in a more amicable way. When separating, the last thing you will want to face is the worry of a long, expensive or difficult legal battle. Where possible we use alternative routes to Court, favouring options such as mediation and collaborative law as ways of finding the best solution for you.

How do you find a good divorce lawyer?

It is best to obtain legal advice from a specialist trained family lawyer. Most importantly, find a lawyer that you can trust and that will understand your concerns and priorities to let you know how best to proceed. Our family lawyers are all registered with the Law Society or CILEx so you know you will receive advice from a trained professional that can help deliver the best outcome for you.

Many of our team are members of Resolution which is a national organisation of family lawyers committed to dealing with divorce and other family problems in an amicable manner in accordance with a code of conduct. Additionally, some of our team are qualified Collaborative lawyers which further demonstrates our commitment to adopting a non-confrontational approach where possible.

Seona Myerscough, Partner and Head of the Family Team, is a trained mediator and a member of both the FMA and the FMC. Further information on mediation as an alternative method to court can be found here.

Our family team are experts in taking clients through often what is a difficult time and providing them with peace of mind. Our team were listed in the Legal 500 rankings which noted “the team are meticulous about matching clients’ needs with the right path to desired outcomes, such as mediation, court applications, ADR or conciliation meaning better client satisfaction.”

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What does a good divorce look like?

Below we have listed some key things for you to consider when going through a divorce process.

1. Obtain legal advice

You might find advice from friends and relatives to be helpful but unless they are legally trained the advice may be inaccurate and misleading. It is imperative to obtain independent expert legal advice from a specialist trained family solicitor at an early stage.

2. Disclose your financial situation

It is important that in a financial matter full and frank financial disclosure is achieved at an early stage. This will ensure that everyone is aware of the full circumstances and gives the best chance to reaching a fair agreement to avoid any contested court proceedings.

3. Obtain a properly drafted financial order

Once there is an agreement on the financial matters it is vital that a properly drafted financial order is lodged with the court. Without a financial order then all financial claims could be left open and this could result in proceedings in the future which could result in future assets being taken into account. A properly drafted financial order should resolve these risks and formally conclude matters.

4. Consider alternative options to court

Contested court proceedings should be a last resort. There are other options you should consider first from mediation, collaborative law, negotiations to arbitration. The costs and delays from going to court rarely make it a desirable exercise.

5. Be realistic

It is important that everyone is realistic. It is key to remember that divorce is a slow progress. At present there are considerable delays with the courts. Often resolving disputes things take time and the more one has a reasonable approach from the start the increased chance there is of an early resolution.

6. Consider costs and funding options

Costs can easily increase in matrimonial matters. It is important that a keen eye is kept on costs to ensure that they keep proportionate to the issues. Costs must be considered at the outset alongside any funding options for the work required.

7. Identify your support system

You should seek support from friends and family to help you through this difficult and challenging period. If needed you may need to speak to a Counsellor to provide the appropriate support.

8. Keep an open mind

It is important to keep an open mind to options be it the method to reach an agreement or the actual settlement itself. There are often many different ways to resolve financial issues and the more options you can consider the better the chance of achieving a resolution that meets your main goals.

9. There’s no such thing as a silly question…

Never be afraid to ask questions to your legal advisor. There is no such thing as silly question. These are important issues and you need to have any queries properly answered.

10. It’s normal to feel emotional

Whilst a degree of guilt or anger is completely understandable in such emotive times it is important that these do not cloud your judgement. There are different aspects the law can and cannot take into account. As such it is vital you have a professional advisor to help you through the process to ensure that your matter is approached as appropriately as possible.

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For more information on how we can help support you through your divorce, please contact one of our family specialists in our Newbury, Thatcham or Maidenhead offices below.

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